The Final Act

As is common knowledge any American President can only serve eight years in the White House. So, this is Mr. Obama’s final act. He gave what some thought was an Obama-style speech Tuesday night at his final State of The Union address; while others thought it was a typical speech that was disrespectful and unbefitting of the Presidency. Some also said that he was too boastful of his record and dismissive of his failures.

I think that couldn’t be further from the truth. If you listen to his address he admitted that he was very disappointed that he couldn’t bring the Politicians of both parties together for the American people. He admitted that he was disappointed that the economy was not more rewarding to Middle Class and Low Income families. That being said he also did what he was supposed to do: He talked about all the shit he got done!

It’s absolutely shameful that so many Republicans don’t want to give this man credit for what he’s done and who he is. Contrary to what Speaker Ryan and other Presidential candidates had to say, this was one of the Classic Obama speeches. He spoke up the countries progress and opportunities. He spoke up the economy that was in free fall and the industries that recovered from the brink of disaster. He spoke up the decision the Supreme Court made to declare marriage equality for all law of the land. He spoke up the American Military and the Service men and women.

He spoke of the power that the United States still holds in the world, and if you doubt that just look at all the countries that still turn to the U.S. for help with their problems. He has helped to reshape the image of America, while being trashed by Republican pundits and Congressmen who think he is an apologist and secret Muslim and a foreign born citizen. Accompanied by his stunningly beautiful wife Tuesday night, President Obama delivered the goods one more time. He showed everyone while his time in office is coming to an end, he is still the man who can galvanize folks.

Love him or hate him, his ability to give those kinds of speeches like he did is something that will always be tied to this President. Let’s remember it was that riveting speech at the 2004 DNC that thrust him into the national spotlight and paved the way for his historic candidacy. Tuesday night I’m sure won’t be his last speech as President, but as far as grading it for his final required address before Congress, he went out with 10’s across the board! Well done Mr. President!

The Beautiful Woman

I will get into my feelings about the State of The Union address later, but right now I want to focus a little more on the Woman behind the Man. Tonight, for the last time, I got to see First lady Michelle Obama. What a beautiful and honorable first lady we’ve had for the past seven plus years. Tonight she looked as stunning as any First Lady I’ve seen.

She wore that beautiful orange dress and her hair was absolutely laid! It was like someone really made sure that she was on 10! Her outfit seemed to compliment his to perfection. He wore that Navy Blue suit with the Blue and Black tie like the dapper man that he is and she wore that dress as if she were standing right there next to him. I’m always so interested as to how Mrs. Obama dresses when she attends various major events with the President.

She is definitely a trend setting and stylish First Lady. The arms out dresses that she wore over the years. The practical designer dresses she wore at times, you know, to show that you can be fashionable and not pay a ass load of money  to look like it. I have been extremely proud to see her in the role that she has played over the years. She has been elegant and graceful; stylish and fly; humble and real. For everything that she was portrayed in the  media at different times, she is without a doubt one of the biggest assets that the President has had over the past seven plus years in the White House.

As we get ready to say goodbye to this historic and wonderful First Family, I pause for a moment to say thank you to Mrs. Obama. She made being a Black Woman really cool, as if it already weren’t. She showed that you can be a mom, a powerful woman, a supportive wife and do it all with style and grace. You can look good doing it and you can display your anger without having to be titled the “Angry Black Woman” as she has been called before.

Thank you Michelle Obama for being the role model that you’ve been to little girls and women. You have shown how to be everything that we have all known is true about a Black Woman. Amazing woman you are and America will remember you.

Presidential Pride

Watching the President deliver a passionate, emotional and galvanizing speech on Gun Control, it reminds me why I voted twice for this man to be leader of this nation. He showed how human he was, he let his emotions of being a father show, he let his heart show and damn it I love it. As much as racists and Right Wing Conservatives try to down talk this President, he continues to prove that he truly is for the people.

Someone please tell me why is that any time he tries to accomplish anything without that lame ass Congress, all folks want to do is criticize him for acting alone? I find it completely laughable that these Republicans on Capitol Hill act as though Obama is doing things that no other President has done. He is doing what he was actually elected to do and that’s lead this great nation. Unlike the Congress men and women, Obama does feel the urgency of time to complete things and make this nation safer for the generations to come.

I guess if they wanted a more toned down President Obama, the Republicans should have to work with him more during his time in the White House. See the irony of it all is that Obama made the decision at the end of last year that he was going to come out this year and throw Haymakers. He’s ready to push as much as he can to make sure his legacy is cemented; but if you really look at it, he’s giving even more platforms to Hillary Clinton for her to run on when he steps aside.

I, for one, am extremely excited about Tuesday’s State of the Union Address that the President is going to give. I fully expect it to be very partisan and inspirational. I expect Mr. Obama to tout his record, the accomplishments of his Administration. He will acknowledge his failures and provide points of opportunity to change some of those failures and make new inroads on other agenda items he has. Look for Barack to take the gloves off in this speech, and do it in a diplomatic way.

One thing we know about President Barack H Obama, is that when he is truly engaged into something there’s not a better orator in the planet. Trump can have his sound bites, but I promise if you put him toe to toe with this President when he’s fully engaged Trump gets smashed. Thank you President Obama for saving some fight for the finish. I can’t wait to see how this year goes.

The Sad Demise of a Legend

I think one of the most saddening tragedies is when someone in the twilight of their lives face ending their lives in a prison cell. We are potentially watching the destruction of an American Icon due to his ego and a few opportunistic women back in his glory days.

This a very difficult topic to talk about because I am torn in my stance on Mr. Cosby and the accusations and some of the actions he admitted to with women. We have heard some of the testimony of Cosby where he admits to giving sedatives to women prior to engaging in sex with them. The question that the whole world must answer is whether or not this was a known drugging or an unknown drugging that led to nonconsensual sex with these women.

I am a realist, and by that I believe that if you have many voices saying the same thing then there is some truth to the rumors because the same story won’t get told by the same person. The fact that over 30 women have come out with a similar version of the events tells me that he did something wrong. But, I’m also going to be honest and say that I don’t believe all of them. As with anything, you always have a few selfless folks who will jump the bandwagon to try and get some attention and money.

I also think that Mr. Cosby suffered from a power trip where he was one of most powerful actors in Hollywood and the culture at the time was wild fun and partying. I think that sex and drugs and drinking went hand in hand back when most of these claims were made. I think one of the great lessons we have to learn from folks of Cosby’s stature is that if you’re not careful and remain level headed, you are prone to making choices that at some point could come back to hurt you.

It’s very ironic that the man widely known as American’s dad, is possibly going to be another convict in the prison system because he didn’t know how to control his hands, dick and hormones. I don’t know how innocent all these women are and I don’t know how victimized Bill Cosby is, but I think it’s just a horrible way to have your life and legacy come to an end.

I hope people start to learn lessons about being powerful and mighty in any industry any where in America. If you gone fuck around keep it quiet and damn it make sure whomever you fucking consents. It’s really played out to have these types of things come out no matter how old. The easiest thing to do when your that fucking famous is get laid. Sorry, just telling the truth.

Justice Will Never Be Served

You know I’ve spoken out many times about the racial inequality and the justice systems prejudicial inequality when it comes to civilians, Black people, versus the law. As we’ve seen now with just about every case whether it be the African American who mysteriously died in prison, Tamir Rice being shot and killed in cold blood, Treyvon Martin, Freddie Gray, the young man in Chicago and her neighbor, Eric Garner, Mike Brown and the list goes on.

The only Prosecutor that had the stones to file charges was the Baltimore County Prosecutor who charged all the officers involved with the Freddie Gray murder. Ironically enough the first officer could not be convicted due to a hung jury. The most recent case of Grand Jury media frenzy decisions, Tamir Rice, returned the expected decision: No Charges to be filed. How much bullshit is that? Or really did anyone in the Black community actually think that charges were going to be filed? Maybe someone who has lived in a shell for the past 3 years did, but if you’ve been watching you would’ve known to not have any hopes.

I’m so sick and tired of seeing all these sorry ass white people coming out with these fake ass exhausted looks on their faces, like they really are torn or in anguish or wanted their people to go down. The reality is as long as there is this standing rule that Police should have the autonomy to kill at their leisure there will never be true accountability for these officers who think that they’re Gods in the flesh. I’m so sorry to say that the instances we’ve seen all over t.v. aren’t the exceptions anymore, in reality they are the norms.

I am very saddened to see that there is not enough transparency for the process of justice. We can argue and disagree with the crimes committed. We can disagree with the amount of time anyone should spend in jail, but the one thing that we should not have to argue about is whether justice will come to all. I’m glad that there are reforms being put in place. I’m glad that folks are bringing to light the problems in the justice system and my prayer is that some day, maybe soon, we will come to realize that all people need to be brought to task for their wrongdoings, not just the criminals.

President MObama

So it’s the final year of the Obama Presidency and it seems like Barack is ready to go out swinging. The Haymakers are ready and he plans to spare no one the knockout punch. First week of the new year and he is already about to take on the NRA and the Conservative Republicans in Congress. I say, “Game On” and I like this Obama.

Many people are bitching because he’s not slapping new sanctions on Iran immediately, rather he’s sitting back and letting the Muslim world deal with that country first, before we just jump right in with our sanctions. The President seems to be ready for a fight in his final twelve months. He seems to be ready to make the inroads where he can to protect his legacy and enhance it when able.

Oh how I wish there was the ability to have three terms for President, because I promise Barack versus these slap nuts in the race now would be a cake walk. I know that people have knocked him for all things he couldn’t get done, but man if we really keep in mind all the things he has done and the stuff he’s going to continue to get done, watch out America, this President may be remembered as one of the best in history when all is said and done.

I’m going to miss seeing my President walk through the Rose Garden to give a speech or walk into the briefing room and talk. Next Tuesday when he gives his final State of The Union address I look for it to be the most hair-raising speech that he has given in that setting. And that’s saying something because last year’s speech was amazing. It reminded me of why we elected this man to run this nation. He has the ability to galvanize people, speak to the human side and show what his beliefs really are.

Only time will tell how much momentum Obama will have after this fun fight is done and whether he will truly have the stomach to shove it down the Republicans throats. History tells me Mr. Obama will be measured in his approach, but it also tells me that he has a penchant for the unexpected and something big or some big things may be on the horizon. Let’s just watch and see.

Holiday at The Movies

So I’m going to tell the truth about something that shouldn’t be that much of a secret. I’m a big ass kid at heart, tehe. This holiday season I went to see Alvin and the Chipmunks: Road Trip. If I’m being completely honest, I love the Chipmunks and I’ve seen every movie that they’ve come out with. This time it was decided that we would go see them on the big screen. And damn it, I was absolutely excited to watch my lil homies do they thing.

From Alvin being his typical mischievous and Theodore providing his cute, innocent fun, to Simon being..well Simon; this movie doesn’t disappoint from the fun and laughter that all the movies provided. Also, I love when they sang and the songs that they gave me this was were songs I could jam too in my seat. I was like a big kid in a candy store when they was hitting all the songs from the year. Bopping my head, tapping my feet and enjoying those loveable little, fury creatures. If you’ve got kids it’s definitely a must and if you are a big kid and just love kiddie movies go see the crew.

The second movie I saw this holiday weekend was Daddy’s Home. I have to say that I’m partial to Will Ferrell movies because he is a damn fool. He truly didn’t disappoint in this movie. Mark Wahlberg also did his part to make this movie a real must see. It had all the stuff you could ask for. It was funny and dramatic, had surprises and an intriguing story line. It really highlights how hard it is to be a step-parent in today’s society.

It highlights the dynamic between the cool, hip but unprepared father versus the responsible, less cool but more stable step father. The lessons that are learned from this funny movie are things that you can apply truly to your every day life. You learn how to really manage this difficult situation, but you most certainly learn what not to do too. LOL, Will Ferrell makes being a step-father cool and also very comedic at the same time.

If you like to laugh and you like surprises check out this movie. There will be things that you really don’t expect and the guest appearance at the end absolutely caught me off guard. Just when you think the movie gave you all you wanted,  it gives you just a little more to send you home with. If you got some free time go check it out. Promise you will laugh a good bit.

An Election No One Wants

Over the past few months, I’ve been writing from all angles about the upcoming President election next year. I have talked about the cunning, yet jack ass that is Donald Trump. I have written about the uninspiring field the Democrats have, because of Hillary’s inability to connect to middle America and the reasons that this could be a poor turnout election. Let me truly offer another pointed reason why young people are completely turned off to this process this cycle and why we really need an overhaul of the election system.

Trump is able to go out on National television and disrobe Hillary Clinton with his macho, egotistical statements and not have any recourse. His supporters laugh at the foolishness that comes out his mouth and are so vehement in support of his nonissues platform. He talks a big game, but truth is he has yet to put out any real specifics about how he would Govern the country.

The opponents of Trump in the race for the nomination are such bitches, because they’re scared of his backlash and the bases hatred for them if they speak against Trump, that they refuse to take a true stand and call him out for his insensitive and divisive remarks. They instead will find ways to softly reject his words, while giving their opinions that aren’t all that much different from his, just with a softer touch.

It has to be disheartening to young people who want to hear what each candidate really stands for and what issues they will fight for in this election. The Democrats really don’t have a candidate that’s lighting the world on fire either. Hillary can’t keep from lying and Bernie doesn’t have a sound foreign policy strategy, so we’re left to take the best of the two and that is Mrs. Clinton

I’ve written many times that this is the most uninspiring pre-election cycle that I’ve been able to witness since 43 ran for a second term against John Kerry in 2004. There is not a candidate in the race who is really wanting to take a positive message of inclusiveness, togetherness, rebuilding, and reinventing to the people and sell it hard. Instead all these candidates want to do is see who can be in position to top Trump if he ever falters.

I wish Elizabeth Warren or one of the other bright, young Democratic Representatives, Senators or state Congressmen would have ran for President. At least we would be able to have someone truly speaking to the voice of the masses and not the elite or crazies of the minorities. Hopefully, we get some fresh blood soon, because after the historic heat generated by President Obama the last eight years, this is a major letdown.

Trump doesn’t speak the truth, he speaks hate, bigotry, lunacy, prejudice and elitism. Hillary Clinton speaks lies, elitism and false middle class understanding. No wonder the media takes to Trump over anyone else. All the rest of the candidates are trying to fit themselves somewhere around these two candidates. What a suck ass election we’re going to have.

2020 anyone… HAHA

Did He Really Act Like That?

Even though Odell Beckham Jr. has burned my Dallas Cowboys a lot during his brief NFL career, I have to admit that I am a huge fan of his. That took a major hit Sunday when I saw his childish and unsuperstar behavior on the football field. Now there are conflicting reports about what happened during the pregame warm-ups and if anything was said to him. I will be the next to say that if the rumors are true that the Carolina defense was hurling anti-gay comments his way, then they got what they deserved.

The only thing that makes me question that is because those rumors didn’t get talked about until after the punishment for Beckham Jr. was handed down. Does that mean they’re false? No it doesn’t, but it also doesn’t mean he isn’t looking for an automatic Get Out of Jail Free card either. Odell, you must understand that you can’t just take things into your own hands. You can’t go out there and intentionally make plays that could cause injury to your fellow NFL brothern.

I’m all for hard play and physicality because that is actually what the NFL is based upon. But I really want him to understand you aren’t the judge, jury and executioner of player conduct. Now as I’m saying all of this, I have to also be fair to the young star of the league and say that I have absolutely seen worse actions on the football field and certainly more deliberate actions also, so I’m not going to really overreact to the situation.

The League also must take a punitive action against that referee crew as well. Because lets be honest, they should have ejected him out of the game well before the peel back, helmet crack happened. Both of the players were playing with recklessness and I would have been ok with both players being tossed for their actions. It’s like in the NBA when there is a heated contest between teams and the officials blow the whistle tight in the game.

It established control of the game and lets the players, teams, and coaches know that there won’t be any dumb ass shit happening that shouldn’t. The NFL officials need to use the power of the yellow hankie and penalty yards to take command of NFL games.

 

Tarheel Pride

Watching the Tarheels play basketball over the past couple of games the narrative that gets written about is the same: When this team is focused and gives max effort on the court, nobody can beat them. I saw this team play, what right now, the game of the year against Maryland. It was an absolute masterpiece between two teams that look to be playing late into March looking for the title. I saw them in games before and after that where I saw similar moments of brilliant basketball from this team and then moments where they truly looked uninspired.

The other narrative that has come out of Chapel Hill is that the teams of late of lacked a total aggressiveness and toughness to win the tough games. They like to play pretty and don’t like to get too dirty as they say. I would agree with all of the assessments because as a true Heels fan I have seen some really head scratching performances from the over the years since their last national title run.

While this season has a long way to go and this team certainly has a lot left to prove, I would definitely be willing to say that they have brought in a lot more to the idea of bringing their lunch pale’s to the arena. Maybe it’s the pending NCAA punishment looming. Maybe it’s the senior leadership of Marcus Paige and Brice Johnson. But this team has a different look more often than not. They look like a team that has it’s eyes set on the long term goal of winning coach Williams his third title and the Tar Heel program it’s sixth national title.

This teams makeup looks practically identical to other two national title teams Williams had. They have great senior leadership, big men who can dominate, explosive talent from their point guard, reserves who could start on any other team and streaky three point shooting that seems to come right on time. This group will have games to come down the line where all of this talent and potential will get to display itself, so lets just wait and see if the crown will be a shade of Carolina Blue when all is said and done. But one thing I know for sure, Roy won’t let up as long as this team continues to buy into the message: Bring your A game all the time.