Month: April 2026

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Heart Chronicles – Be Accountable

No matter what the situation is, taking accountability is the difference, most times, between successful nd problematic resolution to issues or situations. A lack of accountability usually means time spent in unnecessary turmoil

Let me take full accountability for the current dynamic as it exists. Many moving parts and pieces. Openness and honesty always needed nd required. Balance must be struck nd required to keep the energy centered nd appropriate.

For a while, I maintained that balance successfully. Recently, Ive failed to maintain the necessary balance for various reasons. And it shows nd continues to show further.  So the majority of the shift is because of me. Even with accountability being taken, spoken nd unspoken undercurrent exists that are now sabotaging a lot of what’s been built. The underlying tensions are not able to be covered up nd we feel the results.

Apply this to everyone and u find out quickly if someone truly fucks wit u or not.. the way situations are handled nd how they approach u will always be the tell.

If you dont kno when to be accountable for ur actions and/or ur shortcomings, it dilutes ur position. U shouldn’t need to be primed or motivated to accept accountability. It’s a space u should consistently live in.

H¹

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Heart Chronciles – Love Wins

Throughout life, one thing is always true, when you love freely, passionately, honestly, nd openly, that love will always win.

Understand in saying this, I’m not saying that it will be appreciated or reciprocated necessarily the same way you give it. What it will do is allow the environment you create to be a space for love and peace.

When you create enough pure, intentional love it has the ability to change the dynamics around you and others. Imagine if someone you know or love gets to experience that kinda love. It shapes their mind and emotions.  It provides tangible memory recall they can use when building out healthy, loving relationships.

Sometimes, I feel like the hurt and pain we feel takes away our ability to love openly, passionately, honestly, and intentionally. We fear a repeat of the past. We allow those demons and traumas to become staples of our lives. We spend time in this duality where we wanna love and be loved. But, because someone mistreated, abused, or took advantage of the passionate, pure love given it makes us reluctant to share that with someone else.

We don’t forget the power of that kinda love, we protect ourselves from the people who don’t know or don’t want to return that love to us. Instead we find some way to love with caution. To feel with hesitation. To care with tepidness. To continue to intentionally choose to love without fear or hesitation takes courage and a desire to be open and transparent.

It makes civilization better. It makes us better. We are allowed to express and exude all the emotions needed. It gives a better sense of your whole self. Imagine being in-love with someone who returns the love back with the same energy. The energy created is magnificent. The vibes are amazing.  It creates a companionship that transcends all.

Tell me something.. have yall ever experienced that kinda love?