You know I’ve always had the question in my mind.. Why is that so many people want the “bad boy” over the “real boy?” It doesn’t seem to matter whether you’re Gay or Straight, there seems to be the perception that if you a “thug” or a “hood nigga” then you will know how handle business in and out of the bedroom better than the real man who just goes about his business. Far too many times I’ve seen the story play out where the chick or the fem gay boy wants that thug who can handle them and have that masculine, aggressive nature. They seem to like the thrill of the challenge of dating a “hardcore” dude, only to find out that most “thugs” and “hood niggas” really aren’t boyfriend, husband material. in most cases what they are, is a good fuck and maybe a decent provider if they got some kinda job, be it legal or illegal.

Most of the times the people dating the bad boy are so willing to overlook the negatives, and the hardships that come with that type of guy. The normal excuse is, hell he just don’t know how to love me cuz he use to that street love. Or my favorite: He’ll come change, cuz this ass/pussy will tame him. Sorry to those of you who still believe that, but as you will find out, if you already haven’t, that hood nigga is getting ass/pussy all the time, because just like you, there are dozens of people who want to get the thug like you. 

Meanwhile, that man who goes about business the right way, and knows how to just take care of things and treat you with the love and respect that you want to be treated with, barely gets the chance before you’re trying to dog him like that thug nigga dogged you. See there is a clear and obvious link to those who date thugs and street boys and their destructive relationships after that affair is over. See the after effects of that relationship with the thug will linger into the future until that person realizes that a real man can be just as rewarding as that thug if you just let him be himself and accept that masculinity takes many different forms.

So word to the wise for all of you who get a wet pussy or ass when you see that sexy thug walkin’ the streets, if you want get you a taste go ahead and let him dick you down. Hell let him pay some bills if you want, but don’t think that you gone get him to go from hood nigga to a house nigga just by laying in bed and in you ladies cases having his baby.

#good guys are just as good.