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The Power of the Shield…

As the stories continue to pour out about police aggression, and negligent cops using excessive, deadly force, I’m forced to wonder if in some parts of this great country if we aren’t reverting back to internal conflicts between law enforcement and the community it’s tasked with protecting. More  prudently are the cops with the shields targeting the young, Black men once again? Have we reached a point, again, where the African American community must come together to reject the tyrannical approach taken to justice by some of Americans enforcement officials.

While I will never subscribe to the notion that this country has completely rid itself of the rouge, dirty cop; I’m also not going to admit that we have come a long way from the days when cops were fixing crime scenes and arresting who they want, able to plant evidence when they felt like it. No, these are not the norm anymore the situation that happened in Missouri or the one in New York City, but it sure is startling to see the shear abuse of power, and the lack of accountability being taken by those responsible.

I am disheartened any time I see someone being physically abused, but from the posts on Facebook, to the reported stories of late, it has been a rash of White cop on Black person violence and that is where I’m particularly dismayed, You see I am not nieve to the fact that there is still a culture that exists amongst law enforcement, that believes my people are guilty first and proven innocent, instead  of how the justice system is designed of innocence until guilt is proven. 

So maybe instead of rushing to assume that we re in a post racial, post prejudical society, simply because we elected the first African American President twice no less, let’s realize that we have entered the next phase in the fight for equality for the African American community. Protesting is one avenue, boycotting is another. And I frankly believe all these options should be on the table pending a just outcome to this horrible tragedy. Let’s remember the job of the police in every state is to serve and to protect.

My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to the family of these victims who have died in needless, and senseless aggression from the NYPD and Missouri PD. Though this gets at the heart of the tension between the races, the truth is when any race is victimized by very group that is charged with protecting the people they are hurting.

#Justice must be served

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Do you like it long or fat..?

A return to the dark side as I come down for the night.. I have a strange curiousity to know what kind of dick people like. Now, if you take at face value it means just what it says. To specify though, what I’m getting is do you like a long dick or a fat dick? Maybe you like the combination of the two.. a long, fat dick.. HAHA

I think there are benefits of them both and in some cases, some unintended benefits or consequences of having either dick. If you like sucking dick, the long dick may serve you well because you don’t really have to worry about opening your mouth as wide to get the dick slurping started. Now, the only thing about those long dicks is that they can go kinda far down ya throat if your not careful. They also can cause that gag reflex to trigger, unless you happen to be a professional dick sucker; which I’m starting to learn quite a few people are, both and women. LOL

Also, and this is all person dependent, if you like to catch the protein in your mouth you have a better chance of it going down your throat and swallowing it from one of those long dicks. Now this is not to say that the fat dick won’t pose the same issue, but the longer the dick, the less farther the nut has to travel when it comes out to hit the back of your throat. Another benefit of a long dick is that it usually doesn’t hurt has bad when it’s going inside you and if they know how to stroke you right, my God can it give you one hell of an orgasm. Those long dicks have a tendency to be able to hit ya G-spot and send you to a very wild place.

A fat dick poses a whole other set of things. It usually requires you to open your mouth a lot wider and makes your jaws hurt more.. To suck those types of dicks you really need to know what it is your doing. If you don’t. you run the risk of skinning the dude and that could lead to a bad site. Now when you suck the fat dick, you usually get to prepare yourself a little more and you have time to decide if you wanna catch and swallow, catch and spit or just pull off before the eruption begins. 

I’ve also learned that the fat dicks have a lot of juice stored inside, so if you’re going to catch be ready to have your mouth filled with a lot of protein. In addition to that, when you let that fat dick attempt to enter inside you, the amount of lube needed is significantly increased, because you gotta open wide and that’s not always an easy task. Most times too, the fat dick won’t hit your G-spot, but it will surely hit the spot and the nutt can be just as pleasing for you when you have a fat dick beating it up.

So just imagine if you combine the two. A long, fat dick stroking you deep and opening you wide. My goodness what a cloud you would be on, if you know how to take it all and adjust. So there you have it, some pro’s and con’s to the two most common types of dicks. Now I wonder America which one do you like the most.. A long dick or a fat one?? Or are you just the freak who likes the combination.. One ole long, fat dick..

Happy dick dream!!

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The Measure of a Man…

The measure of man is not in his clothes, his masculinity, his skin tone or his possessions. The real measure of a man is in his character. For just because you have a lot of things, or you dress a certain way, or you have a particular personality it doesn’t mean shit in the real classification of being a man. I think we have gotten so trained and convinced that in order to be a real man you must have the freshest clothes all the time, and you must have the finest cars, homes, and be wealthy, and you have you to be overly tough and you must act like the stereotype of your skin tone.

In truth, a man a really that guy who takes care of home; he has no problem paying all of his bills, takes the time to learn himself and establish some kind of legacy for himself. Whether he be gay or straight, he has a presence when he walks in a room. It can be the man who is quiet, yet impactful, or it can be the extrovert who knows how to command the room. A man is one who if he has kids, takes the responsibility of raising that child or children. Instilling the lessons of manhood and allowing that child to feel cared for and protected. It is the man who shows his daughter the qualities she ought to look for instead of showing her who not to go after. It is a man who teaches his son how to act, how to treat people, and respect men and women alike. 

It does not matter whether your dick is going in a woman or inside of another man, the measure of you as a man is not determined by that. It don’t matter if you’re a light skin pretty boy or a chocolate blue collar worker, the measure of who you are is not determined by that. So take a little time to consider the what qualifications you use to determine what a man is.. Because for me masc, fem, tall, short, dark, light, rich, middle class none of things can really measure the trueness of being called a man..

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Take Me to The King

Let the church say Amen.. and let the church say Amen again.. I am one who is very quick to point out that I a religious man, who is more spiritual however than religious. I do not believe in going around toting a bible, nor do I go out of my way to speak about the word or demonize people for things they’ve done. I identify myself a Southern Baptist, straight out of the African American church. 

I will be the first to admit that being an openly gay man in the Black Church has not been nor is easy. You see for whatever reason, Black people think that if your sin is being Gay, then somehow you are more damned to hell that the one who cheats on their spouse, or have a child out of wedlock. The bible toting Christian elite think that you must do everything by the book and if you don’t well then you’re not equal. See they have to sit in the pew’s every Sunday and talk about the folks in the church and then make sure once they leave the church for the day that they are ready to gossip about what they think they know or what they saw that day.

I don’t particularly care for the religious zelots who feel it is their responsiblity to let you know where you’re fucking up or preaching to you what they think the Bible is saying. There are two fundamental problems with this style of religious teaching. One, more than likely you know nothing about the true meanings and contexts of the text  and two, your really just picking parts of the text to fit your beliefs and the rest you decide to discard and unimportant.

Real religious folks don’t spend their time trying to convert you, or worry about who you’re sleeping with. They don’t spend their time trying to figure out how they can control your life or how to make you feel less than worthy about yourself because you don’t live the “Godly” life that they do. 

The truth is that if you really are a child of God, then you love all of humanity regardless of if they share your faith, beliefs, or lifestyle. If you believe in God, then your actions would reflect that; so instead of damning someone, or spreading church rumors, try to be courteous and empathetic, loving and forgiving, because the truth is the text was meant to a guide, one that should be updated history changes and evolves. 

There are stories in the text that will always withstand the test of time, however, there are passages that are outdated, because they applied to a time of discovery and war and destruction. where entire civilizations were being destroyed. Now we live in a world where change is continuous, acceptance is the norm and civilizations are busting at the seems.

So.. before you go off believing a rouge ministry just trying to tap into your feers. or being sucked into the vacuum of the mega church, thriving on the fiances of its congregation, take some time to figure out what kind of person are you. Do you believe in religion and God? Are you an Athiest ? Are you a condemner or an uplifter? I will submit that the only way to God’s wishes, is to truly act like one of God’s children,.

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Does the Bad Boy Always Win…

You know I’ve always had the question in my mind.. Why is that so many people want the “bad boy” over the “real boy?” It doesn’t seem to matter whether you’re Gay or Straight, there seems to be the perception that if you a “thug” or a “hood nigga” then you will know how handle business in and out of the bedroom better than the real man who just goes about his business. Far too many times I’ve seen the story play out where the chick or the fem gay boy wants that thug who can handle them and have that masculine, aggressive nature. They seem to like the thrill of the challenge of dating a “hardcore” dude, only to find out that most “thugs” and “hood niggas” really aren’t boyfriend, husband material. in most cases what they are, is a good fuck and maybe a decent provider if they got some kinda job, be it legal or illegal.

Most of the times the people dating the bad boy are so willing to overlook the negatives, and the hardships that come with that type of guy. The normal excuse is, hell he just don’t know how to love me cuz he use to that street love. Or my favorite: He’ll come change, cuz this ass/pussy will tame him. Sorry to those of you who still believe that, but as you will find out, if you already haven’t, that hood nigga is getting ass/pussy all the time, because just like you, there are dozens of people who want to get the thug like you. 

Meanwhile, that man who goes about business the right way, and knows how to just take care of things and treat you with the love and respect that you want to be treated with, barely gets the chance before you’re trying to dog him like that thug nigga dogged you. See there is a clear and obvious link to those who date thugs and street boys and their destructive relationships after that affair is over. See the after effects of that relationship with the thug will linger into the future until that person realizes that a real man can be just as rewarding as that thug if you just let him be himself and accept that masculinity takes many different forms.

So word to the wise for all of you who get a wet pussy or ass when you see that sexy thug walkin’ the streets, if you want get you a taste go ahead and let him dick you down. Hell let him pay some bills if you want, but don’t think that you gone get him to go from hood nigga to a house nigga just by laying in bed and in you ladies cases having his baby.

#good guys are just as good.

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Skin vs Latex

It’s the conversation that many have had, and yet so many like to avoid. or lie about..HAHA.. How you really get down in your bedroom? Do you like to feel that natural feeling of whichever hole you’re in, or do you always take the safe approach and make sure you or your partner is strapped up?

I’d like to think that most everyone has at least experienced that natural sex once in their lives, and the reality is most people have done it multiple times. There is a greater sense of pleasure and enjoyment to getting inside of someone without being covered. And yes I know there are all kinds of dangers that you have to be aware of. STD’s, HIV and so on, but let’s be honest, who doesn’t enjoy a freaky good time. For the heterosexual world, you have to worry about ya dude getting you pregnant and the decisions that have to be made surrounding that. For the LGBT community, and most specifically men, you have to worry about HIV and the life change that comes along with that.

Now I will never pretend like those issues are not important because they are all life changing events, but I will be honest and say there is nothing like getting inside a nice tight, wet booty, or for that matter a warm, moist twat either. Latex can give you a very safe and pleasing experience too because hey, you can nutt and not worry about having to pull out and also you can usually beat it up a little longer too, because those juices aren’t touching the dick like it is skin to skin.

But I want someone to honestly tell me that they don’t enjoy beating up when they can feel it all. When the wetness is all over ya dick, when you can look down and see it shining from the juices of the person your inside. Graphic or not, blunt or not, these are the facts and also why I think so many like to get it in skin to skin..

So just sit and think about how u like it.. and how you do it..? What is your choice..skin or latex?

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American Ignorance

I’ve sat and talked with people and I’ve listened to the comments made regarding the Ebola outbreak in Africa, that has the potential to spread. I understand the concern because, hell, who wants to have their eyes bleeding or constant vomiting or the final plunge death. But I have to say I have been really disappointed in the lack of education, research and compassion that some of exhibited towards the illness and the Americans who have risked their lives to help contain, and hopefully cure this deadly virus. 

I’ve had a couple convos where folks have said: “why are they bringing those people infected back to the U.S?” “Situations like this always end badly, there’s always some kind of accident.” And to that end, while I understand the fear and discomfort of having two of the patients brought here to Atlanta. GA, I have to say where is your empathy for these folks. To say, oh well, let them stay and die is so un-American and unempathetic. We are a county that does not leave our soldiers on the battlefield when we exit a country from war, so why would we leave our brave Dr’s and nurses on the battlefield of this health war. I’m proud that our government decided to bring our folks back where they can get the best treatment possible. And not only that, where we can examine them and this virus to find, develop and administer the cure to them and others across the globe, so we can eradicate this virus.

If every time there was a outbreak, we just let people die and not try to health, cure and understand, where do you think our society would be in comparison to where it is now with the medical advances we’ve made. Sometimes, for the good of the whole you have to take risk; calculated and measured, precise yet daring. Because it is with these risks that we find cures, make miracles happen and continue to be the America that all of us have known and to a large extent loved.

Ebola can’t be gotten from walking in the room with an infected patient. If you did the research you would know, it is caught from an exchange of fluids. Yes that means sweat, saliva, blood, sexual fluids. That is how it is passed from person to person. So let’s all take a breath and let the medical geniuses do what they do best.. Find a way to kill this shit. American Pride

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Dirty vs Clean

Soo I’ve often wondered why it is that soo many men like to have sex with a guy who doesn’t prepare for the nights activities..LOL.. In an effort to try and keep it from being too descriptive, if you don’t what that means, ask someone who’s gay and they will surely tell you..HAHA.. See I have a very good appreciation for the random, spontaneous, passionate sexual acts that happen between lovers; yet, where I struggle, is when there is a plan or an intent on the part of the bottom to get plunged and they don’t prepare like they know they should. 

You see, I understand if you’re a novice and you’re  not really sure how much prep time you need, or the accidental thought that you did prep enough only to realize once the dick got inside that you really didn’t do a good enough job. The reality is, at one time or another, it has happened to anyone who has been a bottom. It is a skill that you have to learn how to master, but it definitely is one that I think is taken for granted far too often. Please understand even if you are in a relationship and you have that moment of spontaneous passion that does not give you a pass to not be prepared going forward. And don’t use the excuse that you were drunk or high to justify your inability to get that hole nice and fresh and clean. 

Ohh and if you get past say 18 or 19 and you don’t know how to clean yourself properly, I suggest finding a lifetime bottom that doesn’t mind schooling you on the need to clean, and how to correctly to do it. But, i think that sometimes the need to be clean gets lost because there is now this fascination to want to beat that booty dirty.. which to me is the most sickening thing you could do. For one it creates one hell of a mess, both for the top and the bottom, and for two, that smell lingers in your house no matter how many candles you light or how much air freshener you spray. 

So fellas please while I know the urge exists, and your ass can get hott and for you tops your dicks are hard and heavy, allow ya dude to be fresh and clean, the experience is soo much more enjoyable and the smell will just be that great sex smell; you know, the one that usually lets know you somebody done put in some work and if the dick is right, somebody’s ass is a bit sore.

Enemas are cheap and found everywhere these day. For two dollars you have all you need to be able to keep a fresh, clean booty. If you choose to use an alternative method, ,and there are a few, just make sure you know how do it to satisfaction.

Happy Ass hunting!! 🙂 How do you like it.. clean or kinda raunchy..??

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Slippery when wett…

Soo… a break from the rated PG posts, time to get have a little freaky fun.. The question has always been posed, Do you like sloppy head? Or do you prefer it to be just “wett”? There are different pros to each of the scenarios. See, I think that if you know you wanna have sex after you get head then the sloppy head method would work because if you like to simply slide right in afterwards, then your partner has already lubed you up. Also, if you’re just the type that likes a good blow job to get off, sloppy head by the right person tends to give the same feeling of being inside a nice warm place. 

Now a few of the draw backs could be if you don’t like a mess, then you don’t want to have someone give you sloppy head, because your sheets will definitely be wet..haha.. The draw back could also be the person giving the sloppy head, don’t know how to give the right kinda sloppy head and it just makes a mess and you’re not satisfied. Also, if you plan to strap up once the head is ova, then a sloppy wett dick doesn’t really like having a latex condom put over it. Soo.. the question you have to ask is what events are taking place after the head is being given. If they know how to suck you and just get the dick wett, it can lead to a lot of productive things after. The condom will go on easier and the clean up will be a lot less time consuming. 

The flip side of that is do you like ya ass to be ate and have it be sloppy wett or do you just to get it nice and moist so your clean up is minimized. Again, if you ask me I think either way, if you having sex skin to skin. or with a condom, a nice wett ass always makes the process easier. But you know again there are some draw backs. What happens if the dude don’t know how to eat right.. What if he uses his teeth..OUCH.. what if they just get the rim of the whole wett and not inside the whole, to help stimulate your body to release those fluids inside to make for a really fun night. 

So there are so many different things to consider when thinking about whether you like it sloppy or just wett. LOL, the decision has to be made and I often wonder what do other people choose to do when they’re about to get it on. So the question really is.. do you like sloppy or do you like it wett? LOL.. Happy conversation hunting!! 

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Rainbow Bright

So now that we are coming to a day where Gay marriage is being legalized all over the country. As state after state after state has their prejudiced laws reversed, overturned and thrown out, I decided to take a minute to offer a little insight as to why the rainbow is now shinning so bright.

See it hasn’t always been easy to be Gay. Whether you were White, Black, Asian, African, Jewish, or whatever nationality you are. And the truth of the matter is in many of those cultures it’s still a major struggle to be completely accepted as an equal and respected as an individual. For every show that you see that embraces the LGBT community, there is a real life situation playing out where those Homophobic men still choose to beat, maul, degrade, and dehumanize the community. Ten years ago it wasn’t so easy to come out and live your life freely. The revolution was still in its infancy and the Love and Acceptance Ministries were just beginning. While it was an easier time to walk in your skin, than say twenty or thirty years ago, it was still seen as taboo, nasty and a disgrace.

There were many who hid who they were and allowed themselves to be victims of the creep and dl lifestyle. And yea, true enough there’s still plenty of so called “DL niggas” running around here, but trust me that’s now only a title and not truly a way of living. If you give one of them “DL” boiis the right time of night and the right person, that hidden agenda quickly becomes a standard Gay; eager to engage in the pleasures of the lifestyle.

The beauty of the revolution is that now so many more of those who once thought they had to hide in the closest can come out and live freely. It has allowed for the teens and tweens, the twinks and grown-ups to live their authentic lives without fearing the harsh, negative and scathing back lash. We have the first President in history to come out openly in support of the cause, we have marriage being legalized and benefits recognized. 

Ask that stud or fem, that masculine or feminine man if it makes a difference to them whether or not they can marry who they want, allow them to have the same rights afforded to heteros when something happens to the one they love. The reality is.. the Rainbow has always been a symbol for happiness, positivity, joy, luck, and fortune. Whether it was the Leprechaun who said his gold was at the end of the rainbow, or after a storm when the sun light hits the water and you see a beautiful rainbow in the sky. The colors are bright and radiate fun and joy. So you had to figure it was only a matter of time before the object that symbolized the LGBT community would shine brights over its’ people and bring forth positive change. 

So remember when you think that the name calling, and harassment was for nothing.. think about that rainbow and how every time you see it, it shines bright. Just like the people it represents, you can pour water on it and try to destroy it,but once the sun hits it, it will shine in all its glory.