If you’re reading this then the title caught your eye.. Ha! Damn I’m good. No sex doesn’t actually pay my bills, but for hundreds and even thousands of people it does. This blog is not intended to undress or demean you in any fashion, it is taking on a booming industry in the gay community, primarily young, black gay men.

I never knew that prostituting yourself would become the financial windfall that it has become. Nor did I think it would become so popular and in your face as it is now. It use to be that male escorts were discreet, offering their services through vices that wouldn’t expose them while also keeping their clients low key. Now, the escorts are face front on social media and their clientele is all around literally.

The use of social media and dating apps has caused the prostitution business to flourish and it’s quite disturbing. Now a days men are content to sell their big ass dick or sweet smooth ass to pay they bills, rather than getting up going to work and puttin in work. They would instead choose to put in the work on their back or on someone’s ass to keep themselves off the clock.

When did that become the new normal practice? More importantly when did so many people participate that so many guys feels comfortable demanding you pay them for the feeling and the pleasing that you can easily get for free. Yet, room for this has been made by the fantasizing and romantasizing the definition and the girth of the male body.

It’s also very smart in some ways. Why not capitalize off the thing this community loves to do so much, Fuck. So I guess, in a lot of ways we only have ourselves to fault. I do think it’s stunning just how many folks are openly and unapologetically doing this for trade and not bothered by it. Or if they are, they aren’t letting on.

If is this is your job or 9 to 5 or whatever ur office hours are, don’t you get tired of having to fuck just to make sure u can sleep and eat? Dry spells are bound to happen right? Or is the sugar daddy and pay for play community so strong this industry will boom forever?

Tell me your thoughts America