Month: November 2016

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The Obama Effect

I know it’s been a while since I wrote about the outgoing President of the United States, but as we finally come to the end of this election cycle it’s time to help cement the legacy of President Barack Obama. Many are now saying, both privately and aloud, they wish that Obama could stick around just a little while longer.

Now, yes many on the Right are ready for him to go, because in their minds, this Black man has been in the White House far too long for them. They have despised the site of him and his family occupying that place. They have long waited to usher him out and put back in someone who looks, talks, acts and sounds like them. Well in less than 72 hours, we will back to that place. The only question is will it be a White woman or a White man?

I was watching a clip of Obama giving his speech and a protester who’s a Trump supporter came into the rally. The President’s reaction and response was amazing stuff and I only wish that the two candidates would have such grace, style and respect for the office that their running for. See instead of trying to usher the man out himself, or shame the gentleman, the President made the case for why the man should be given respect and stick around.

He reminded the audience that in America we have freedom of speech, he also told them that he appeared to be a Military Vet who has earned our respect, and finally he said that he was an elderly gentleman, which also calls for respect. Then he pivoted back to his speech and reminded folks that they were losing focus by engaging that man. Rather than engage him, he urged them to Vote! Amazing right, he still got his message across about America being distracted by insignificant things and losing focus of what issues each candidate stands for. He quickly told folks that if they don’t get their focus back America could be in trouble.

Imagine if Hillary could do that just once. Can you imagine how she could sway folks and get the public to possibly refocus the conversation on matters of importance. But, that’s part of that Obama mystique that we’re going to miss. He gives you so much of the calm, cool man. Respectful and always mindful of the characteristics of a person before just instigating disparaging remarks.

We may not agree with every decision he’s made. We may not think he did enough for one group or the other, but make no mistake President Obama is a figure that’s needed right now. He has tried to further the conversation nationally about Police brutality, inequality and the stigma in the Black community. He has talked about the opioid epidemic, the injustice in the American prison system, reversing the extreme prejudice from the War on Drugs. I can keep listing things that he’s done without support from a Congress that wants him gone.

These approaches to the office of President may seem simple, or automatic, but remember there is one candidate who wants to be a dictator and rule with an iron fist, the other, while no where near as authoritarian, is still slighted to the well connected. Obama showed us how to be a humble President, and that we certainly could use a lot more of in the current candidates.

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Good Head Good Life

Clearly my title is a little tongue in cheek, but this blog will tell you why you need a partner who knows how to give good head. Laugh now, but I bet if you think about it you’ll realize if you ever been wit someone who knows how to suck good dick, you’ve been happy pretty often.

Now the premise of this is based on you having someone who both knows how and likes to suck dick. Think about when you’ve argued with the person and then it came time to have make up sex. Ain’t it grand when they just drop to they knees and start sucking your dick? You know it makes you feel good and then it just makes you wanna fuck em that much better and more. If this ain’t you it’s cool, just thinking about what made you mad will still get the job done I’m sure. LOL

But, I want you to also think about on them mornings that you gotta get up for work and you know you don’t wanna go. If your dude or woman there wit you and know your frustration, maybe they help give you some motivation and bless you before you gotta go. Maybe they even start while you sleep so you wake up and feel like the day gone be great. If you had this happen then you know exactly what I’m talking about.

Or think about that weekend action. You off and you know you can sleep in a lil late. Bae next to you and just slide down and go to bobbin on that dick, you know that shit makes you feel like a million dollars right. Ha! Maybe you got a freak for a partner and they start sucking on you while you out driving to where eva y’all bout to go or coming from. Who don’t like driving down the road gettin a good brain session? What about that lunchtime quickie? Ain’t got time to fuck, but got time to get slobbed on. Tell me that don’t set you right.. LOL

The tension that gets released, the frustration you can let out but fucking the hell out they throat while they sucking on you. If they like it rough, you can grab they hair and pull, if they ain’t got a lot, you push they head down on ya dick and enjoy the job that they doing. You ain’t gotta admit it, but it makes your sex life that much better. If they can suck you til you bust that nut, tell me a good nut from sum head don’t make feel you relaxed.

Now all those benefits were just given, imagine if you didn’t have that. The sex might still be good, but the sex might also be a lil boring. Limited foreplay but lots of fuckin..maybe. See sometimes if bae ain’t in the mood to give up the ass or pussy, that good brain will suffice for the night. Oh and by the way, if the reason it’s not being done is because they don’t know, then you should allow them opportunity to practice on you. So maybe you that kat that boo won’t blow you cuz they don’t know how. Let them practice. Because as we all know, Practice does make Perfect! LMAO

If you dare, leave ya comments and lets have a lil chat about it.

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Why Hillary Ain’t “Over”

If you have ever watched Wrestling, you know when someone says that a wrestler is “Over” it means their getting the reaction from the crowd that they want. Whether it’s a Heel and their being booed or their a Face and gettin crazy cheers. Well so many people have written, and mostly correct, about why Hillary Clinton ain’t clinched this Presidential election already. I wanna go a little deeper so people can understand she would never have gotten “Over” no matter the opponent.

One she’s going against a career entertainer in Donald J Trump. He knows how to work a room and how to work the media. He knows how to say things to get a rise out of folks and the reactions he gets are genuine, whether or not his comments are true. The problem with a guy like that is no one knows when to take him seriously and when to say he’s being grandiose. I think by now we all know that the shit Trump says he believes. He’s a sexist, racist, prejudiced, bigot. But the problem is so many on the Right believe what he says to be true and they want that in their President.

The other issue is that he speaks to the sensalization of  the American people, so regular minded folks think he really knows what the fuck he’s talking about, when in reality Trump don’t know a damn thing about Foreign policy or how to run a country. Yet, many want him because he speaks tough. Another problem for Hillary.

She’s like the Babyface that’s been in the business for twenty years and you know her move set, al la Hulk Hogan but with far less charisma and likability, so you know what’s comin and you don’t like it.  Her problem is everyone knows who she is and what she stands for. And, while some of her views are very favorable for the middle class, she’s lived her life to show you that she truly believes in the Cronism of politics.

She doesn’t know most of what to say or do for regular people cuz she ain’t been regular in over 30 years. She’s truly out of touch with the American person, be they Black, White, Poor, Middle Class or Gay. She don’t know the struggle. She can’t get over because what she’s supported when she was First Lady and the Junior Senator from New York, puts her at odds somewhat with the demographics she needs the most.

When her husband was President she was strongly for The Defense of Marriage Act. This at a time when there was not a robust push for LGBT rights. They pushed this legislation through without any provocation. Then she was  a strong advocate for the “War on Drugs” movement that her husbands administration was largely responsible for pushing, with Congressional assistance. This led to the massive incarceration of lots of lower class Colored People, Black and Hispanic, which caused major ramifications in the community.

Look at her close ties to Wall Street, you know, the industry that damn near crippled this country a little more than 8 years ago. Add it all up and you see why her tricks are gettin the rise that she wants. She hasn’t shown that she’s truly evolved, just changed her wording up because she knows the public sentiments aren’t with her old Democratic Party ideas. This is not the Democratic Party former President Clinton, this truly is the Obama Democrats.

All of that being said, I’d rather dance with her at the party, then to take a flier on Trump. That just sounds like suicide. Why the hell would you wanna jump off the building just because Hillary don’t exactly see eye to eye wit you. November 8, 2016 will have consequences. Whether or not their the ones we want, remains to be seen. The differences are there but the truth is she is the only one who will truly be able to continue our progress for the next four years. So Vote! Vote! Vote!

P.S. that doesn’t mean I disrespect anyone who votes for Trump. I just can’t make a rational decision to vote for someone who doesn’t respect Women, Gay people, Black people or Immigrants. I can’t respect someone who only talks about general plans and has no definitive plans. America Wake Up!