I was laughably having a conversation with my boyfriend a couple weeks back and we were talking about this potential topic and I said that it was time to write it. I know that this will cause a little bit of hurt feelings but hey, if it does, then maybe that means it applies to you. Now what you do with what gets said in this blog is your choice.

First let me make sure I help those who might not know what these letters mean that I’ve used to title this blog. T.H.O.T means That Hoe Ova There. I wanted to talk about this because I’m alarmed at how many people are picking THOTS as their partners and then shocked when the relationship doesn’t work out or surprised when certain things happen. Just by rule a THOT is not a boyfriend or girlfriend, they’re a FUCK simply put.

This will focus on the men because I’ve no damn clue about properly identifying all the different type of female THOT’s but as for men, especially gay men go, baby I’m going to give you the damn book. Sit back and relax. Enjoy the read, get you a good laugh and take notes, because the next time you think you got sum good, you might have a man in disguise, they just might be a THOT.

Let me give a few characteristics of the feminine and masculine THOT. First the fem THOT. If he looks extra cute, but tells you he inbetween jobs or has lots of money but can’t tell you what he does for a living.. THOT. If his phone is constantly going off while y;all on a date and he gives you the stupid look.. he a THOT. If you go out and lots of people know him and look at you funny, he’s a THOT. If his asshole feels kinda hollow.. he a THOT. If he can slide your dick inside of him without no lube.. he a THOT. If he says that he needs 10+ inch dicks only.. he a THOT. If he expects you to pay for everything and y;all just met.. he a THOT. If he can’t talk about nothing but sex and how good he is.. he a THOT.

For the more masculine man.. if he sexy and ain’t got a job but always keep income.. he a THOT. If his phone keeps going off and has to constantly excuse himself.. he a THOT. IF y’all on a date and all the fem boys gawking at him.. he a THOT. If his dick can’t stay hard while y’all fucking.. he a THOT. If he can’t bust a nutt.. he a THOT. If he keeps condoms on him.. he a THOT. If he asks can he nut inside you on the first time.. he a THOT. If he needs to hide his phone all the time.. he a THOT.

By the way, here are a few communal traits that you might wanna look out for. If he always wants to fuck no matter when you last had sex.. he a THOT. If every time you see him at the club his shirt is always off.. he a THOT. If you constantly see him leaving with someone else.. say it.. he a THOT. Don’t let your one night stand turn into Fatal Attraction wit a THOT because you will always end up burned. LOL

Yes there can be exceptions to these character traits, but I can pretty much bet you that if you see these traits in the dude you think is your man, it’s probably a good chance that he’s a THOT. Warning: Be careful!! Because THOT’s want to be loved too and they will mask themselves very well in order to feel that love and continue to be taken care of. Watch for the street, educated THOT. Those are the ones who don’t need your money, but definitely wanna add your ass or dick to their collection plate. Yes, go on and fuck, but no don’t get your feelings attached.

Yes, I know there will people who disagree wit this and that’s fine. But after almost 14 years of experience in this lifestyle, I can say with much confidence that 99% of the THOTs in these streets exhibit these character traits. My goal is to help you notice what you gettin so that you don’t try to turn community dicks/ass into relationship dicks/ass, because for you that means disappointment.

Lemme know what you think.. How you feel. Let’s discuss. Both sides are welcome to speak.