If you’ve been into church at all then you’ve heard the saying to be careful who you let in your house. If you talk to enough older people, they’ll tell you the exact same thing. When you’re young you have no damn clue what the hell they talking bout. As you get older though, that shit starts to make a whole lot of sense. What they’re really saying is you really can’t open your door to just anybody.

Now I know the bible says treat your fellow man with kindness and to treat them as you want yourself to be treated. But, I think that there’s something to be said for the man who smiles in your face but tries to destroy you behind your back. Whether it’s you personally or the relationship you in or whatever. I’ve come to learn that once that negative spirit makes its way into your circle, it can make it difficult to remove. Thus, it can make your relationship or home toxic.

Maybe that’s one of the reasons that some of the folks who don’t really care for me don’t like me. Because as I’ve been very open to saying, if I don’t get a good vibe off you then the first time you come in my presence will also be your last. I’m not very open to dealing with drama and I don’t do, what I call, black spirits. Those are the kinds of people and spirits that give you pause. Cause that black spirit hangs around your home long after that black person has left.

And for the ignorant out there, no I’m not talking about the color of your skin, because black spirits exist in all colors, races, creeds and orientations of people. So please make sure that you keep a check on who comes around you and in your space, because if you’re not careful that negative spirit will be on whatever you touch.

One of the hardest things to deal wit though, is when your significant others’ family member or members are the negative one and you gotta allow some kinda blending of ya space because it’s important to them. I’ve long since wondered how does one deal wit that? When do you say enough is enough and when do you just smile like a fake bitch and deal wit it. For someone like me, this is very difficult. Because if you know me then you know that I don’t really care for much of the fakeness mentality, I just prefer to tell ya ass how I feel and let you adjust accordingly.

Even if you just like to fuck and you have a lot of random sex, you must be careful of the people and spirits you let inside your house while you thinking bout how good that dick, ass or pussy bout to be. Cuz once you bust that nut the aura is still inside your house. Say what you will about the religious aspects of this thought process, the logistical and realistic approach is damn sho on point. If a nigga vibe is wrong, keep they ass out your space.