You know what I’ve come to learn over my time talking to people and from the talks I have with my friends, is that every damn nigga in this city/state is consistently inconsistent. No one seems to know how to truly be about the business that they claim to be. No one seems to truly be real and honest. Everyone has an angle, and the minute that you either: a, stop fitting the angle; b, stop feeding their ego or c, the next dick or ass that feeds their want pops in their face, then whatever it was that being worked on stops.
I do find it to be funny that I have to agree with the same assessment that my friends have outlined above. I will agree completely that this shit happens all the damn time and it’s really pretty sickening. No matter if it’s a boyfriend that changes his spots, a friend that only seems to pop up when they need something or exes that seem to find their way around only to show they’re still no different than they were before; oh and let’s not forget the newbie that tries to talk a good game only to have it picked apart in less than a day.
What I find to be the most ironic is how everyone seems to shout the line that they tired of the same old shit, but they keep doing the same old shit. I wonder if people really got tired of it what things would truly look like. OOOOH, and while we’re at it, it’s not just an Atlanta thing, because this city is littered with people who aren’t from here or raised here and they have the same messy, bullshit type mentality as the niggas from this city.
It leads me to the conclusion that I’ve spoken about before: this city contains so much readily available dick and ass that no one seems content to wanna stick by their word, Instead, they’d rather hide under the umbrella of “friendship”, “meeting people”, or “relationship oriented” in order to accomplish their actual goals. Sex, money and control, in some way, shape, form or fashion combine to make up the reasons that people do most of what they do.
While the conscious mind may not say it or admit it, it’s the actions that people take that show you who they are and what they’re really all about. You can talk til your purple about respect, common ground and realness, but the truth is that shit takes a real ass person to enact as a way of being and honestly, most niggas too afraid of being vulnerable to be real. Too concerned with being in control or not letting yesterday happen today, so nothing of substance can truly be had.
The only thing that I know, is niggas are consistently inconsistent What are your thoughts?