You know I had to wonder if I was going to post something about this situation and after some thought I decided to do so. If it’s one thing that I truly can’t stand it’s a messy ass faggot. And if you know me well, you know that I don’t like to use the word faggot loosely. I don’t like it used referring to me and I don’t like to call anyone that name unless you have truly earned such a designation. Well there is someone out there, who will remain nameless, that truly earned that distinction.

When you don’t get what you want because you aren’t the best match or because you just don’t fit personality wise with someone, you don’t set out to destruct that person’s relationship because you’re not use to being told no. A bad bitch who truly knows that you’re not always going to be the flavor of the month all the time, won’t be fazed and will continue to  move on. One thing that you don’t is stalk what you can’t have and then speak to their partner because they don’t wanna fuck with you no more.

It’s one of the things that makes the Black Gay male community so vilified. We don’t know how to respect when someone is in a relationship, nor do we respect the individual by giving the compliment and moving forward. So many in the life want to gawk and stare at you. They continuously try to talk to you and find ways to get inside. They try to hunt the social apps and streets to see if they can find some dirt on you.

One thing I’ve always said is that if we can’t learn to accept rejection and to respect each other, how the fuck do we truly expect anyone to take us seriously? Where does it say that we have to fight to the death to get what we want all the time? What happened to believing the scripture that says if someone is for you they will be for you no matter what? I absolutely do not understand messy ass faggots who really feel like they can do what they want to do.

The one thing I say about it all is it never fails that when these situations happen they do seem to happen to the right person. Never think that just because you can’t be found at the moment that karma won’t sneak up on you and get yo ass. Because I do believe that unless you put enough positive karma into the atmosphere to offset the shit you doing, that karma will get you.

We gotta do better than this as a people. We have to respect ourselves more than what we do. More importantly we’ve gotta respect the relationship choices and decisions we make as individuals. I understand that your feelings may be hurt because you get turned down, but have some self respect and keep living your life. Ha, while I could say more.. I’ll just stop right here.