I know that I may have touched on this before, but you know recently my pastor preached about the ability to grow by yourself. And you know for some people that might be too much to handle, because so many folks are afraid to be alone long enough to evaluate themselves and make the necessary changes to them and in their lives to prevent from going through the same things over and over again.

It is a definite sign of maturity and strength when you can allow yourself to pull away from the world, for a time. long enough to realize that you need to grow up and become a better individual. See one thing we must all realize is that while we can seek out those who have more experience and wisdom in the world to gain knowledge and understanding of the things, but you still must be able to take the information and apply it your way and style so that you can be the best you that you can, not the best someone else.

Change must be something that you realize on your own needs to happen. You can’t be forced into making changes, nor can you be so lucid in your beliefs that you let people change you. See there is something to be said about not even allowing love to change you from the core of who you are.

Remember that real change usually occurs when your by yourself. Even if you are in a relationship, you have to know that self growth and motivation must still be the basic premise for changes, not just because you love someone and want to be with them. From this guys perspective, I’ve always made the best changes when I’ve isolated myself from people. I think that people have to have a solid understanding of yourself to know that self development is so very key.

Not a lot on this, but just a little refresher to update this. Tell me your thoughts, let me know how you feel.