Let me say that for as long as I’ve been in this lifestyle as a gay man, I’ve realized that the most powerful word to tell another man is No. It amazes me how many times when you tell someone no when you are first meeting and learning each other, how many times conversations end and wild assumptions begin to be made about the type of person you are.

I would like to suggest to some of these dumb ass people, walking around thinking that the beginning of something new is when you should always get a yes answer, to get a fucking clue and realize that just because you might be pretty or handsome or have some good ass or dick, it doesn’t entitle you to anything let alone a yes to anything you ask.

I find it absolutely laughable that there are actually guys out there that think this way. I don’t know if people are just use to insecure men doing whatever they want to keep getting a taste of some good wood or ass, but I think it’s really ignorant.

And then add to that, I’ve never seen so many niggas who a problem with a person who has rules and guidelines for how they live their lives. To make the association that because will not buy you something because they don’t believe in it that they are cheap is stupid and ignorant and quite frankly immature. it’s the first lesson that you’re taught, which is that you must stand for what you believe in, even when someone else doesn’t like or agree with your stance.

I am using this blog as my vent session because I think I’ve reached my fucking limit with niggas who want to think that cuz they let you fuck one that they are entitled to something. That just because you don’t bend over to kiss their ass when they want something that you don’t add up and now all conversation must cease. To you who believe I say, check your egos at the door and come to the modern world. You might be cute, you might have that good good but make no mistake about it, it’s not all about you.

I’m sure all of us know someone like this, have experienced someone like this and have a similar story to tell. So by all means share your story or drop a line, I wouldn’t  mind the debate on both sides of this topic, I think it would be fascinating.