Month: August 2014

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Slippery when wett…

Soo… a break from the rated PG posts, time to get have a little freaky fun.. The question has always been posed, Do you like sloppy head? Or do you prefer it to be just “wett”? There are different pros to each of the scenarios. See, I think that if you know you wanna have sex after you get head then the sloppy head method would work because if you like to simply slide right in afterwards, then your partner has already lubed you up. Also, if you’re just the type that likes a good blow job to get off, sloppy head by the right person tends to give the same feeling of being inside a nice warm place. 

Now a few of the draw backs could be if you don’t like a mess, then you don’t want to have someone give you sloppy head, because your sheets will definitely be wet..haha.. The draw back could also be the person giving the sloppy head, don’t know how to give the right kinda sloppy head and it just makes a mess and you’re not satisfied. Also, if you plan to strap up once the head is ova, then a sloppy wett dick doesn’t really like having a latex condom put over it. Soo.. the question you have to ask is what events are taking place after the head is being given. If they know how to suck you and just get the dick wett, it can lead to a lot of productive things after. The condom will go on easier and the clean up will be a lot less time consuming. 

The flip side of that is do you like ya ass to be ate and have it be sloppy wett or do you just to get it nice and moist so your clean up is minimized. Again, if you ask me I think either way, if you having sex skin to skin. or with a condom, a nice wett ass always makes the process easier. But you know again there are some draw backs. What happens if the dude don’t know how to eat right.. What if he uses his teeth..OUCH.. what if they just get the rim of the whole wett and not inside the whole, to help stimulate your body to release those fluids inside to make for a really fun night. 

So there are so many different things to consider when thinking about whether you like it sloppy or just wett. LOL, the decision has to be made and I often wonder what do other people choose to do when they’re about to get it on. So the question really is.. do you like sloppy or do you like it wett? LOL.. Happy conversation hunting!! 

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Rainbow Bright

So now that we are coming to a day where Gay marriage is being legalized all over the country. As state after state after state has their prejudiced laws reversed, overturned and thrown out, I decided to take a minute to offer a little insight as to why the rainbow is now shinning so bright.

See it hasn’t always been easy to be Gay. Whether you were White, Black, Asian, African, Jewish, or whatever nationality you are. And the truth of the matter is in many of those cultures it’s still a major struggle to be completely accepted as an equal and respected as an individual. For every show that you see that embraces the LGBT community, there is a real life situation playing out where those Homophobic men still choose to beat, maul, degrade, and dehumanize the community. Ten years ago it wasn’t so easy to come out and live your life freely. The revolution was still in its infancy and the Love and Acceptance Ministries were just beginning. While it was an easier time to walk in your skin, than say twenty or thirty years ago, it was still seen as taboo, nasty and a disgrace.

There were many who hid who they were and allowed themselves to be victims of the creep and dl lifestyle. And yea, true enough there’s still plenty of so called “DL niggas” running around here, but trust me that’s now only a title and not truly a way of living. If you give one of them “DL” boiis the right time of night and the right person, that hidden agenda quickly becomes a standard Gay; eager to engage in the pleasures of the lifestyle.

The beauty of the revolution is that now so many more of those who once thought they had to hide in the closest can come out and live freely. It has allowed for the teens and tweens, the twinks and grown-ups to live their authentic lives without fearing the harsh, negative and scathing back lash. We have the first President in history to come out openly in support of the cause, we have marriage being legalized and benefits recognized. 

Ask that stud or fem, that masculine or feminine man if it makes a difference to them whether or not they can marry who they want, allow them to have the same rights afforded to heteros when something happens to the one they love. The reality is.. the Rainbow has always been a symbol for happiness, positivity, joy, luck, and fortune. Whether it was the Leprechaun who said his gold was at the end of the rainbow, or after a storm when the sun light hits the water and you see a beautiful rainbow in the sky. The colors are bright and radiate fun and joy. So you had to figure it was only a matter of time before the object that symbolized the LGBT community would shine brights over its’ people and bring forth positive change. 

So remember when you think that the name calling, and harassment was for nothing.. think about that rainbow and how every time you see it, it shines bright. Just like the people it represents, you can pour water on it and try to destroy it,but once the sun hits it, it will shine in all its glory.

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The Black Divide

In most cases I usually agree with my pastor and his opinions. This time thou, I have to disagree if for no other reason than the premise he uses is already flawed. The assertion that the President is responsible for galvanizing his people is flawed. See the idea that a President is responsible to one person, or one group is inaccurate. The basic premise of politics is that you are bound the hands that fuel you. A President, while the first of his color, or religion must still be accountable to everyone. And for that reason, among others, he or she cannot be the galvanizing force anyone would like. That role usually falls to the community leader, the preacher, the teacher, the person who can have a voice to speak freely and the ability to cater to one specific group. The great Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and Malcolm X, were not political figures, they were regular men who aspired for great things for their people. They were not bound by the hands that fed them, because the hands that fed them were the very ones they were fighting for. 

The question though does have to be asked.. Who will pick up the torch and take the on the cause of Black people today? Unlike 50 years ago when we were trying to get equality in a human rights sense; now we are looking to equality in the corporate world, equality among our people and definitely an equality among our different sections of people. It seems like money has come into our community and destroyed the unity that once existed. The desire to “White” ourselves has appeared to strip us of some of the individualism that we as a people displayed.  The LGBT community in the Black community is still disgraced and shamed as unequal and in some circles a freak show. If we really want to know where the next leaders of the movements will come from, then you may want to look to the LGBT community, to this new generation that is not nearly as hung up on where you come from, what you look like, who you sleep with and more on who you are and what you want to do.

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My small introduction…

Some would consider me a real talker.. Some would consider me an opinionated asshole..LOL.. Some consider me a man with a lot of knowledge.. while yet others consider me an intelligent fool. I like to consider myself a combination of all of them. So, I think that makes me a very intriguing, extroverted, expressive, opinionated individual. Some of my thoughts are controversial, some of them push the envelope and make you think. There are some thoughts of mines that make no sense, and others just to make you laugh. I have a passion for sports, politics, entertainment, current events, parenting, movies, music (college bands especially), and education. I also have a bit of a fascination with black, gay porn. Probably because I’m a gay man and the site of another colored man turns me on..HA! But I also have an unbiased appreciate for a woman with a sickening body. So that’s just a little taste of me. Stay tuned to the blogs and trust me you will learn ohhh so much more!!!