Something I cannot stand in this gay versus straight dynamic is why so many straight men feel that just because they are a man that every gay man wants them. I don’t know whether it’s arrogance or paranoia that makes men feel that way, but I hope as we continue to evolve in this modern world, more straight men will be comfortable enough in their skin to accept gay men and be able to chop it up with them when there is common ground.

As a gay man, I can honestly say that I most definitely am not attracted to every man I see, regardless of whether they’re gay or straight. And to that end, there are a vast majority of men like myself that do not have a liking for every dick they see walking. While I will say that there are some men who will flock to the first dick they see and don’t matter whether whose man or woman the person is, there is an overwhelming majority of the community who have a type, and don’t want just anything. 

Let me also say that just because we like a man we see, it also doesn’t mean that you want them. I will say that many of the friends I have, including myself, enjoy looking at men and their bodies and all the parts that are on them, But the ability to watch the eye candy as it passes by is a wonderful thing. And baby the thoughts you can get in your mind about the things you see, well it’s enough to satisfy you for a little while. LOL

Whether or not a straight man is comfortable in his own skin is the only thing that will make being around a gay man uncomfortable. I am fortunate to have friends who are gay and straight and the great about my straight male friends is that they never get an uneasy feeling when I’m around. We’ve played basketball together, played football together, slept over each others house and never was it ever uncomfortable.  See when you have a firm sense of yourself it doesn’t matter who it is that’s around you. Because quite honestly, both women and men alike can be vultures when they see something that they want.

A good dick, with a hard body is enough to make anybody do a double take. And if you just so happen as to date one of those type of men, smile and lay back and take a great deal of pride in knowing that your man is eye candy to the world and bedroom satisfier for you.

#Not all the same..