If your significant other came to you and said they wanted to have a threesome would you do it? I believe it is this thought process where someone in the relationship has a wondering eye, or they feel like they haven’t accomplished all their sexual goals that the door opens for someone to cheat on their partner. For a man, its a lot simpler than it is for a woman. See a man will cheat just because he sees a nice body, a phat ass, a nice dick, or a pretty chest on a woman. For the woman, it’s so different. See they get their emotions involved, most of them anyway and will consider cheating to be physical or nonphysical. 

The truth of the matter is cheating takes many forms and can be different things. The most common form of cheating is physical. I have determined that for a man, physical cheating is their preferred method of choice; while for a woman the emotional, mental form of cheating is their usual method of choice. Unless of course they catch their dude cheating, then all bets are off and they usually seek revenge. 

The art of cheating has seemingly been perfected by the gay men, more specifically the Black, gay men. I cannot begin to count how many times I’ve had a friend call to tell me that their relationship ended for cheating. My first thought always is, you just caught them the last time; how many other times have you missed.

While all that context is nice and the reason can vary anywhere from ya partner not giving up the dick, ass, or pussy enough, to you having kids and the sex drive not being the same or because the kids are young there’s not enough time between work and caring for the kids. Maybe the person didn’t grow with you and their sex is still very basic and you want to become more of a freak and experience more fun sexual encounters. 

Whatever the reason behind it, I always wanted to know was it worth it? Did you get out of it what you wanted? Can you leave it as a one time thing or does the allure of doing it and not getting caught engulf you? Do you try to introduce that person into your bedroom business with your partner and see if you can have your cake and eat it too? Have you become such a skillful cheater that you’ve never been caught and if you haven’t would you ever consider telling your partner?

While all the answers to those question will come in another blog, maybe sooner than later, I will say that there have been occasions where I have cheated and to this very day, the individuals that I was in the relationship with when it happened don’t know that I did it. So I guess that answers the question for me: Will I ever tell them? Well I guess it all depends…

#Truth serum time…