This is probably one of my more funner blogs because it is a conversation I’m almost certain every gay man has had with someone at some point. Are you a top, bottom, or versatile? Now I can say that I know what it is to be two of these three in a relationship and quite honestly, I’ve been all three in “sex only” relationships. If you ask me which is the most fun I would definitely have to say being with someone else who is versatile is the best sex ever. There are so many things that you do, so many ways to please each other. See when both people are vers it make having sex a blast. And if you’re just having a sexual experience it opens up the possible choices for a threesome, foursome, or orgy to be tops, bottoms, or versatile just like the two people organizing the function.

Being the top i my relationships is usually where I wind up, and If not it’s just a very steamy versatile relationship. No, I don’t believe that I could ever be a bottom in a relationship because I like ass too much, and quite honestly I don’t have a small dick and I definitely like to use it. Now I got to this thought process, by experiencing all of the different labels they put on us as far as our role in the bedroom. I’ve been a top, a versatile top, fully versatile, versatile bottom and bottom. I will be honest, there are times where if the person has the right dick and knows how to use it, I can enjoy having a sexual relationship with them where I’m their bottom, however, I could never date them because again my dick has to get put to use inside a warm tight hole.

Also, I think being a top is so much easier, you have very little prep, just to make sure the dick is fresh and clean; while the bottom has to properly clean themselves, which takes time, and be prepared for a dude who might not know how to use the dick they got. At least you know that if you doing the fucking all you care about is if the bottom still has walls and is that ass squeaky clean. 

That though is where being vers make you have to prepare for it all. You gotta clean because you don’t know if you gone be fucking, getting fucked or both and no one likes to go into the nights events thinking they getting sum ass only to find out the other person isn’t fully prepared. A vers relationship also is less likely to get old and predictable, which lets be honest is a recipe for disaster sometimes too.

So take a little time and really think about what you like.. #top, bttm, or in between….