I truly believe that one of the biggest relationship killers today is the face that too many people are unappreciated by their boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband. You know as small as it may feel at times to have someone say to you that they don’t feel appreciated, you have to read through the lines to really understand what they are saying. See if someone is saying the feel unappreciated it also means they don’t feel wanted, they feel that they are just being strung along, they feel that the feelings they have aren’t mutual feelings.

Those feelings of inequality tend to lead to feelings of reclusiveness and a feeling of being alone. If that is the mind frame of your lover, then you can almost bet one of two things is going to happen next: one, they are going to break up with you or two they’re going to cheat on you. Why do you say does this happen. Well, lets think about it.. if the feelings mentioned above are truly being felt inside someone it means that they have tried to talked to you before about the situation and while the conversation was productive and lead to some temporary fix, the long term reality is that no change was realized and so you’re back to where you begin, feeling the same way all over again.

The truth of the matter is the person who is making you feel this way may not truly understand the magnitude of how you feel because there could be some personal issues that they are dealing with, which is affecting their ability to truly understand what is going on with you and how they are making you feel. So yes sometimes there can be a justifiable reason as to why the lapse in attention and care and affection has happened, but I think anytime you feel a change within yourself you owe it to your lover to express it to them as well. Because after all, you’re with someone to make a life together for better and for worse.

#Time to dig deep and think…