No matter how many times I have this conversation, I’m always amazed at how many people try to act as though they don’t have an inner freak, or like they’re just good wholesome people who’ve never danced with their freaky side. I think that while there definitely should be a balance to how much you allow yourself to just be a sexual being without looking for that person to share the most special of times with, there is definitely value in just letting the freak be free.

I know people who come in on both sides of this equation. I know there are the conservatives who say that sex should only be had when you’re married, or at the very least are in love with the person, or engaged to the individual. But I also know quite a few people who are on the opposite end and believe that in order to become knowledgeable about your body and to know what you like, you need to experience a few sexual encounters. i guess the question that has to be asked is how much is too much? And also, is it okay to just be about sex and not worry about the feelings involved.

I come in somewhat split on this topic because I’ve done both of these things. I’ve been in a committed relationship and given all of me, in many different ways, to just one person and I’ve also been that sexual freak, who has enjoyed having sex and not worrying about the feelings associated with it. I also wonder would it be considered too much if you just had a couple sex friends; you know where those are they only one or two people that you are sexing on a regular basis?

Then there is the nympho who feels like they have to get it all the time and if they don’t then they’re missing out on something. While one theory says the promiscuous person is one who lacks self esteem and love of themselves, I would tend to submit that sometimes it’s just a case of that person wanting to enjoy the pleasures of sex and not have to worry about whether or not they gotta wake up next to the person tomorrow.

My honest opinion is this, if you’ve never lived a little and experienced a good time with casual sex, maybe you should. At least that way when do get with someone that you wanna build with, you know how you want to be pleased in bed, you know whether you’re a traditional sex person or a kinky sex person.Hell you know if you like em big or small, long or fat or all of the above..

#pillow talk for the night…